Sunday, June 28, 2009

ALWAYS MUMMY.


My mind is not thinking straight right now and I don't know what the reason is!

It does not seem like Am going to have anything interesting to talk about,my mind is not racing fast enough,maybe the joburg cold is getting to me.

During the weekend I got to spend quality time with my family and there never seems to be enough time to be together,because Am so busy and I feel like Am not giving my family my all.Lately I have learnt to spare some great me time before I go nuts,women have been juggling all in one plate and not taking care of themselves as they should.

It is time that women get to love themselves and have some 'ME' TIME' because when you do not get some 'me time' if not enough, you will forget who you really are at the end of the day and what you really are capable of.

A study has been done in the last 2 months in Kenya by the Daily Nation, where it was discovered women are neglecting their homes in terms of putting their careers ahead and forgetting the 'home front'.It has come to light that, the people the career woman thought to be the least of her worries,' the nanny', is in fact the real threat.

The working class woman being away all day and not giving attention where it is due,the nanny has been helping herself with what is not in her territory.She gets to bond more with the madam's children and the children love her for being there for them when mummy is not.

One career woman got the shock of her life when her husband of 10 years told her, he thought their marriage was not working and that he was marrying the nanny.The husband argued that,
his wife had forgotten to take care of him by doing little things for him.

The study showed that it is time the career woman woke up and smelt the coffee.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

WHACKO DEAD?

MICHEALWAVING YOU AND ME GOODBYE.
I did not beleive it when I heard from the grapevine that Micheal Jackson is dead,I still can't bring myself to beleive he is gone.


Growing up as a little girl Micheal's songs played in our living room,both my parents and especially my dad loved his music.Call it knowing and having a good taste of great music,that was my dad.I know that he too is devastated like me.'Ghostbusters',when they come into your neighbourhood who you gonna call?GHOSTBUSTERS! This is one song of Micheal that I loved so much and 'Moonwalking'.He had dance moves that I for one cannot beat and Iam a great dancer,but he beat me to it hands down.


May his soul rest in peace and God knows why He had to take Micheal,this time when he was planning his COMEBACK.He could have been the comeback kid that no one expected to make such a wonderful music career and music legend of our times.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

SORY FOR THE INCONVINIENCE


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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

THE SUGAR.


Words cannot explain what my mother has seen in this life,she has been through hell and back.


I hold so dear to my heart ,that when she was going through a very difficult situation I was not there for her.She has and will always be there in my life and I thank God that The Almighty gave me a chance to know,love and respect her in all aspects of life.

I am writing this and hoping there is someone else out there going through the rough patch in life.My mum is a very hardworking and strong woman person and I admire her for every effort that she put,into making me the being I am today.

A spiritual person who never forgets to go down on her knees,when times have proven to be unfair to her.She is a tough cookie to crack and I try to emulate what she is in this short life.Hystorectomy came calling when I was going to college,members of the family had to donate blood type B+ to save her life.I recall I had no much time to spend with her after her operation but my dad and younger sister were there all the way.

The heavens came crushing down on us,when mum was later confirmed to be diabetic!What a life we all thought because we had no idea how we were to sail through?I htought life sucks at some point and it felt like there was no will to go on.

I recall visiting her one day and she assured as all was to turn out okey. Don worry my child every hurdle that you go through in life only makes you stronger', she said.

Spending as much time with her was my way of letting her know that I did not desert her in her time of need and I made sure she knew that she meant the world to us.Words at times may not make difficult situations easy,but deep down in my heart I prayed that she knew it all.

Days have passed and it is now 9 years since she has been able to manage her sugar level and enjoy a healthy diet.We have all learnt, what it is to eat healthy and not complain that brown bread does taste good!

Mum has long stopped injecting herself and all that she does now is watch what she eats. I can confirm the road has been rugged and the journey has been long, but we have come out victorious,any way.

Victory is ours.

NB.Internet not working so there is no hyperlinking to anything!

Monday, June 22, 2009

NUTCRACKER.


Leaving class yesterday I thought to myself how I was going to have a peaceful moment after getting home. What awaited me me to my surprise was that my niece and my youngest daughter were not feeling well.Plans had to be made and I had to take them to see a doctor even without an appoinment.


My daily routine is I hit the road by 6.30 am,when I drop my eldest daughter and my niece to their respective schools.Getting to Wits with the traffic is something I have to bear in mind,because the lecturer does not entertain lateness during his lectures.


In the past week there has been a flu stalking my house and it does not want to go away. When we got to see the doctor it was after two hours of whining from my second born daughter who is a terrible two. An escapade that we had earlier on, is we had gone to the vending machine and it did not want to deliver the chockie my terrrible two was eyeing.


You do not want to know the glances I was geting from other patients because my terrible tow was practising her noise making and there is nothing I seemed to do that was to calm her.My mind was racing,the security did not help either,he only told me that I had to take up the issue with the people who installed the vending machine.Can you imagine what that did to my terrible two,I was beyond myself and felt like to strangle the man.


After leaving yesterday's lecture at 4PM, Ionly got home at 8PM,you do not want to imagine how many rands I spent that were the last in my pocket.Poor me juggling school,work babies and my darling.


Who wants to fit in my shoes? The chance is up for grabs and you are welcome anytime!


Sunday, June 21, 2009

ANYONE OUT THERE?


This could well be the question on the minds of many Iranianas on the political uproar in the country?

Innocent lives have been lost as many cannot and will not believe the outcome of the recent election results.What has the World come to? I wonder when I see all this mess if I may call it so.

Watching the video of the 10 year old dying in the streets and no one could help, breaks my heart.Surely leaders of the World, should do something.Or it does not matter as long as it is not happening in your backyard?

As you think of what your answer might be, just think and search your soul, in what your contribution no matter how small , is in the World?.

Has it ever occurred in your mind that one day what is today happening in one part of the World may come to be in your part of the World as it has happened in Kenya ,Congo,Zimbabwe? God forbid if it were to happen and Iam not wishing it does to anyone.But seeing men,women and children crying in the streets and no one is coming to their aid breaks my heart.

Leaders need be ashamed of themselves, they need to take a closer look at themselves and see what bad politics is doing to innocent people.Truth be told something needs to be done and fast.
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Friday, June 19, 2009

mumi'mbored

This children business is not easy but it is a lifetime chance to get to see yourself through your children.

All the best and enjoy it while it lasts(I mean) the upbringing business.